Sunday, February 16, 2014

five months on...


time is an abstract notion when you spend all your days 
loving and snuggling with your baby
she's been with us five months
but sometimes it feels as though she has always been here

i love the soft bit at the back of her neck 
the little cupid's bow lips
those big, shining eyes

she is placid, content and sweet
and she has bewitched us all

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Saturday, February 15, 2014

sisters-in-arms...



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these two have something very special
 a unique closeness and affinity
it is magical
and almost tangible


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Saturday, December 21, 2013

only 4 days till Christm….whaat??





at about the same time every year
i can be heard exclaiming
"..how the heck did that come around so quickly?!"

but it has and as always
there is a frantic, frazzled fug of 
last minute shopping

the shops only close for one day
but i stockpile food
like there is a famine

we try not to go overboard
when planning the menu
but who am i kidding?

paul likes to make an occasion of present wrapping
the kids are put to bed on time
we fix ourselves a pot of tea and a few slices of pannetone
put on some suitably festive muzak
and wrap away
carefully labelling and embellishing each parcel
before laying them under the tree
imagining the anticipation
and look of the children's faces 
on christmas morning

when all the gifts have been opened
when all our bellies are full
we'll sit down to watch a christmas movie together
drift in and out of sleep
cups of tea
fruit mince pies
maybe a splash in the pool

life is good here
and not just at christmas
we try not to forget that

i wish all of you
a restful christmas with everyone you hold dear;
and the gift of time to be still and enjoy being together

Merry Christmas!











Monday, November 25, 2013

turning a corner...



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ten weeks on and we've turned a corner
less planking with me
less bouncing, rocking, patting, swaying, shushing and humming
and not a moment too soon
my arm was beginning to fall off

now she gives us cheeky lop-sided grins
chatting away
staring intently at her fist
as she wills it towards her mouth

i've managed to venture back to my beloved group fitness classes
adding to the little walks after dropping the big kids at school
combine that with her voracious appetite for the good stuff
coming from my udders
most of the pregnancy weight has melted away

she feasts during the day
and prefers to sleep at night
i'm starting to feel human again
now that i'm getting a least three hours
of sleep at a stretch

hard to believe that this time last year
she wasn't even a blip on the radar
now we can't imagine what life would have been like without her
our scrumptious poppet

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Monday, October 21, 2013

whirligig weeks...

ivy has been with us for five weeks now
in that time we survived the school holidays
kind friends dropped off delicious meals
visitors came for cuddles
the big kids spent lots of time with popo and kung kung
ivy spent lots of time in my arms

lets call her cuddly






as with each of my babies
ivy seems to me the most beautiful creature i have ever seen
she is calm
and appears to survive on lots of quality breastmilk
and about five minutes sleep during the day
thank goodness
she makes up for it at night

life as a family of five
has taken some getting used to
but i think we are all finding our feet now


Saturday, October 12, 2013

and now we are FIVE.


after thirty nine weeks of incubation
the dumpling was finally delivered
fresh, plump and scrumptious

after a week of false alarms
the day finally came
the big kids spent the night at their grandparents'
we spent the night feeling nervous and full of anticipation

we made our way to the hospital at 8am
calmly and quietly checked in and nervously waited for our turn

before we knew it
we were in hospital gowns and I was vertical
staring at the huge saucer of light above me in theatre
knowing that my babe was only minutes away from my arms






it was love at first sight



Ivy Tamsin Joyce
3318 grams
52 cms long
Friday 13 September 2013 at 12.23pm


*Ivy's middle name is a feminine form of Thomas, so named to honour Paul's father*



Wednesday, September 4, 2013

a change is as good as a holiday...


and it was true for us













a little escape to one of my favourite 
seaside towns

we took the kids
booked into a hotel
close to everything

and took a deep b.r.e.a.t.h.

the salty sea air
the freedom from chores
and released all the strains of the past few weeks from our bodies

we managed to squeeze in
retail therapy for me from here
fathers day breakfast with all the dads in our family
kicking the footy around
watching buskers at the markets
a visit to fremantle prison
stopping for lots of chai lattes from gorgeous cafes
a relaxing soak in the hotel spas
too much grazing from the hotel buffet

24 busy but fun hours away from the drudgery
of housework